The whole new beginning

I’ve been waiting for this opportunity too long.
Feel very humbled and destined. It’s time again. Always stick to the original objectives.

what is the best way to teach my son ?

How genetics works is just amazing, even though I didn’t raise him at all he resembles all the good and bad things of mine. Even though we’ve been 6000 miles far away, I can predict what he thinks. I can even feel that what’s my good and bad habits in all aspects.

He’s just another myself. Problem is that, as a father, I wanna give him some enhancements. That’s how the gene evolves by generations. I’d like to remove the bad one from him and umpire good ones.

The worst one I’m focusing on is that he doesn’t want to use his physical body to achieve something. He’s just looking at things and just keeps thinking, which is good. He’s cautious at everything, thus no severe accidents are with him most of times. But I want him a little active,
Enforcing him to do something without my showing first will be ended up with just failure.

I simply decided my mind to show him something. “Something that your father is doing is worth doing yourself.” I will start something for him. I’m seriously thinking of what’d be an appropriate for him and myself. Let’s see how it goes.

I’m really serious.

Giving the advice to other people

Last Saturday, I had some chance to give some advice to 3 other different people.

One is running small company specialized in media industry,  the other is interested in many areas while looking for new jobs, another is senior-year undergraduate student who’s mulling over which way he’d rather take as his future.

Because  I’m also having similar thoughts these days, those advices felt a litle ackward to me. How can one give advice to some other people even though one is not also ready to make a choice in his life ? Maybe it would have been the word that I had always wanted to give myself.

It was damn simple. First,  what do you really want to achieve ? Think about your future in 3 years, what would be the shape of your life like ?

Second, know thyself. Check out your career path, and potential, social brand, and your possibility of superior excellence in that area ?

Third, Knowing only yourself isn’t sufficient.  Predict the future.  What would be the most rapidly growing industries ? what would be the market landscape after 3 years ?  That landscape is reinforcing your excellence ?? or your excellence is pretty far from the interest of the normal people, I mean market.

The order of thinking if very important. If the market analysis precede yourself analysis ??? your decision might have some fallibility, you might choose what exactly only the market want, not what you want.  Thus, dreaming your future must be done firstly than anything else.

It sounds pretty simple.  But answering to these questions frankly is very painful job.

I’m actually doing this job by myself these days, nothing has been decided yet though.  Advice to other people, in other words, was actully advice to myself and some kind of mantra.   You never compromise your dream with others’ expectation.